Father And Son Visit Ground Zero

Guest Post by John Khouri

Father And Son Visit Ground Zero

Photo of boy looking into camera while standing in front of the Vietnam Memorial by Eve Ross for EncinoMom.com

Photo of boy in front of Vietnam War Memorial in Washington D.C. by Eve Ross.

I recently had the opportunity to take my nine-year-old son George to Ground Zero in New York City, and for the first time as a father (and educator), I found myself at a loss as to how to prepare him for the experience. I could remain virtually silent about what happened on September 11, 2011 and instead just focus on seeing the two big fountains at Ground Zero. I could give him the “broad strokes” while leaving out many of the complex details about religious fundamentalism and the war on terror which might be over his head.  I could focus on the event as an historic battle with enough distance to avoid creating unwanted anxieties. Or, I could introduce him to all these things and delve relatively deeply into the scope of this human tragedy, what happened and why.

As an educator, I often refer to my son as my “focus group of one”, and with many such issues, I reflect not just on my own son, but on our Woodcrest K-5 students. Of course, something like 9/11 is an event that most elementary school students are not ready to fully comprehend, either intellectually or emotionally. What struck me most when thinking about how to introduce my son to 9/11 in some way was the global awareness, or lack thereof, of elementary-age children. There is, I believe, a real need to impart some sense of today’s world to those students. A regular examination of current events always has a place in an elementary social studies curriculum, but to what degree does it create an awareness of our dynamic world, of the many forces that work together and in conflict, of the “delicate balance” that exists among societies on earth? I tell my friends and colleagues: look for an elementary school that gives careful attention to imparting its students with foundational skills that will serve them well in middle school and in life. Modern students in a modern world need modern foundational skills and that includes not only math and reading, but also the introduction of critical thinking skills that take our world into consideration and produce engaged citizens of the global community.

- John Khouri, Executive Director Woodcrest School

PS. I decided to let my son shape the discussion, to give him the facts about what happened that day over a decade ago and then let him ask me questions. My answers neither patronized nor intimidated. I felt my way along, moment to moment as I witnessed him processing my answers and putting together his own picture of that day. Then I hugged him and showed him the big fountains.

Tween Makeover At The Good Life 2013 Fashion Event

Tween Makeover At The Good Life 2013 Fashion Event

We enjoyed The Good Life at Westfield Topanga Mall this past weekend, with complimentary beverages and mini cupcakes served while the latest looks for Spring and Summer hit the runway! Watch the video to see highlights, plus we had our own Lizzy K there for a tween makeover with dry styling from Carlton Hair and fresh makeup for everyday from Make Up For Ever. There were massages and photo ops, too! It was a great treat for spending some Mommy Daughter time and the whole event was completely free.

Participating retailers offered special discounts during the event, too. And just in case you think you missed it – you can check out The Good Life at Westfield Fashion Square in Sherman Oaks this weekend (see schedule below). I thought it was a great opportunity to provide a little professional guidance for tween make up. It can be such a loaded issue. Personally, I don’t advocate wearing much make up for every day (until your so old that you’re actually performing a public service when you get made up). I do recognize how exciting entering the world of cosmetics can be for young girls. With a little direction and encouragement, tweens can avoid the green shadow and black liquid eye liner, applied with little skill, that still mocks me from my 7th grade school picture.

I loved all the fabulous shoes from JChinese Laundry and Michael Kors. Great white linen dresses with lots of bright colored accessories were prominently featured. You can catch a glimpse of a couple of my favorites from Caché in the beginning of the video. Lots of great looks from White House Black Market and plenty of island style from Tommy Bahama. Of course, the tweens loved the looks from True Religion. If you make it out to the event in Sherman Oaks, let us know which looks you’ll choose to carry you through the summer!

WESTFIELD FASHION SQUARE

SATURDAY, May 4th | 2pm & 3pm

SPRING/SUMMER FASHION TREND SHOW

Fashion Show Participating Retailers:

Bloomingdale’s (exclusive presentation), Banana Republic, Fossil, GAP, Express and Children’s Place

 

SUNDAY, May 5th | 12pm – 4pm

BEAUTY SESSIONS

COMPLIMENTARY BEAUTY SESSIONS & MINI TREATMENTS

Beauty services provided in partnership with:

LUSH Fresh Handmade Cosmetics, Kiehl’s, Sephora and Salon DIORO

Sweets and Treats provided by

Velvet Cupcakes and Williams-Sonoma

Massage Therapy courtesy of MyTime

 

MONDAY, May 6th – WEDNESDAY, May 8th| 2pm – 4pm

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THURSDAY, MAY 9th | 12pm – 6pm

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Los Angeles Zoo Tips

Los Angeles Zoo Tips From EncinoMom

Here are our tips for your visit to the Los Angeles Zoo. We had the opportunity to visit on a perfectly temperate Friday afternoon and caught a screening of Koala Kids (out on DVD April 30th exclusively from Walmart and Walmart.com). This was the perfect time for a zoo visit. If you read reviews from other zoo visitors, you’ll see lots of advice to stay away from the zoo when temperatures soar and that afternoons have the double benefit of being less crowded and offer the best chances for seeing more animals or animal activity.

The new entrance to the zoo (more – new to me, than strictly new) reminds me of the movie Jurassic Park and gives you the feeling that you are in for an adventure before you even get inside. We saw lots of wild birds feeding (and one greedy squirrel) as we walked the ramps leading along the main path past the Sea Lions. Reggie the Aligator had his back to us and was so still, I thought he was bronze!

If you are visiting the Zoo with little kids, babies, toddlers and pre-schoolers, try to remember that children generally love other children! They may be just as amused and entertained by seeing other kids and visitors to the zoo as they are seeing the exhibits and animals. You’ll enjoy your visit to the zoo much more if you don’t set your heart on seeing a specific animal or exhibit. Focus on enjoying the people you are with and let the zoo be the back drop for your experience. You’ll have more fun and create great memories.

Parking is free at the zoo, hurray! Prices for adults are currently $17 with discounts for seniors ($14), Children 2 -12 years of age ($12) and children under age 2 are free. The Tom Mankiewicz Conservation Carousel is $3 per ride and annual membership for families is value priced at $114, see site for details: http://lazoo.org

Sprouts, Growing Your Own Organic Produce From Food

Sprouts, Growing Your Own Organic Produce From Food

Sprouts growing Carrot tops growing in a saucer of water.

There are so many foods you can grow starting with the parts you usually cut off and toss (into the compost bin ;-) . When I was first married, I started a compost heap on a little spot of barren Earth under my landlord’s living room window! We lived in a little one bedroom apartment a block from the beach. Outside of our living room window was a defunct fountain, that I spent countless hours bringing back to life with the help of my husband and encouragement from the other tenants in our small apartment building.

Next door to us, with a common wall, the building owner’s daughter and teenage granddaughter lived with their 17 year old tabby cat. The daughter managed the building. Sorry, I digress. The compost idea was a good one, but the location was problematic. You might be thinking it was because of the odor. That wasn’t it. It was the heat. Compost heats up. I’m lucky I didn’t burn the building to the ground!

Before I realized my compost pile had to go, something miraculous began to happen. In that hot heap, just outside the door, things began to grow! Untended, unaided by me; celery, carrots, onions – began growing – spontaneously. I started to experiment. I had never thought about the connection between growing food and eating food in that way before. Sure, I knew apples grew on trees, but I never made the connection between eating an apple and actually growing an apple tree from the discarded apple core. It seems obvious, now. If you never really gave it much thought either, here are some ideas to get you started:

  • Potatoes – Yup. The eyes of potatoes are new roots growing. You can put a whole potato in the ground and watch it grow. It’s a fast growing plant and you get to dig in the dirt (fun for kids) to harvest your crop.
  • Onions – Super easy and they make cool flowers, too. Plant with the pointy end up and the root (looks kind of like hair) end down.
  • Garlic – Break apart a head of garlic and plant a few cloves in the garden – like the onion, pointy end up. Plant garlic and onion a few inches below the surface of the soil as they will need the support for their flower stalks.
  • Carrots – Cut off the tops and start them growing again in a saucer of water. Once roots appear, plant in the garden. You can probably start them in the ground, but you need to keep them moist for them to get growing.
  • Celery – Cut the whole bottom of your celery off about 2 inches above the base. Plant the base.
  • Beans – Place in a saucer of water. Not all of your beans will sprout. Take the ones that do and transplant to your yard. Most beans are climbers and will need support.
  • Cantaloupe – Separate seeds from the melon flesh and put them in a plastic baggie with a wet paper towel. Tape the baggie to a sunny window (behind a curtain, if you don’t want everyone to see your experiment – of course anyone passing the window on the outside will know what you’re up to!). When seeds sprout, choose the strongest ones and transfer to soil.
Sprouts growing already. Carrot tops in a dish of water in the kitchens at EncinoMom.com

Sprouting carrots

Sprouts growing carrot roots begin to form in the California kitchen's at EncinoMom.com

Roots forming.

Carrot sprouts growing in the soil at EncinoMom.com's California garden.

Transplanted.

Glass of green onion sprouts growing in a sunny window of the EncinoMom.com's California kitchen.

Sprouting scallions

Sprouts growing taller. Green onions after 30 hours in EncinoMom's California kitchen.

2nd morning

Sprouts growing so fast. Green onions on the 3rd day in EncinoMom's California kitchen.

3rd morning

 

 

 

 

What produce or herbs are you growing? Tell us about it in the comments below!

Paris: Alternative Things To See And Do For 2013 Tourists

Paris: Alternative Things To Do For Tourists Visiting The City Of Lights This Year

Paris Alternative Things To Do Tourist Guide, Walking In Versaille

There’s plenty of room to get away from the tourists at Versailles if you walk around, instead of taking the tram.

My Top “Off The Beaten Track” Paris Attractions
Whenever I recommend things to see and do at a particular destination that I know well, I usually guide people off the beaten track. I save the typical attractions for the guidebooks. That said, here are my picks for the best of Paris:

The Museums
Everyone goes to the Louvre. In our two weeks in Paris, on a trip celebrating our anniversary, we were more interested in walking around the city, spending our nights in Jazz clubs and restaurants and our days in historic parks, exploring the ciy and plein air painting on the Seine. We never stepped foot in the Louvre, although we did spend a lot of time walking the grounds, which are breathtaking and enormous.

We did spend an afternoon at the Musee D’Orsay, located close to the Eiffel Tower. It has an incredible collection of Impressionist and early 20th century painting, and a wonderful café with a view of the city.

Paris Alternative Things To Do Musee D’Orsay is a manageable museum built in a former Train station

Musee D’Orsay inhabits a former Train station.

Ahh, The Seine
Crossing the bridges of the Seine on the charming bridges, looking at the riparian street artists and walking the cobblestone streets of the Ill de France is a must-do, but one has to take a sunset boat trip on the river via the Bateu Mouche.

Right Bank and Left Bank by foot.
Traveling by foot on the Right Bank, one can see the Hotel DeVille, The Pompidou Center and be inspired by a sunset view of Notre Dame. Outside, facing Notre Dame, turn left, cross the street and walk thru La Rue de L’Huchette, a sparkling pedestrian street.

On the Left Bank, explore the trendy, lively St. Germain, and St. Michel areas, get a taste of Parisian Café life, and visit the most popular park in Paris, Jardin du Luxembourg, with the beautiful Palais du Luxembourg and Fontain de Medicis, both dating back to the 17th century.

Paris Alternative Things To Do - The main entrance and courtyard at Versailles

The main entrance and courtyard at Versailles.

Nightlife
A visit to Le Petit Journal St. Michel is one of my favorite Paris experiences. You can listen to  jazz in an ancient building and rub elbows with locals.

The Burbs
While most people take a day trip to Versailles, we have opted for a quicker, easier journey to explore the 14th century castle, Chateau de Vincennes and walk through beautiful Parc Floral. After your expedition, walk through the surrounding neighborhood for a less-touristy taste of cafés, bars and brasseries at a much-discounted price when compared to the places closer to the center of the city. I’ll never forget the Almond Croissant that I got near the metro station at Vincennes.

If you have the time, a trip to Versailles is well worth the Metro Fare and price of admission. While the main castle is the most popular attraction, the grounds are expansive and there are plenty of beautiful examples of 17th century excess, including an entire peasant village built for Marie Antoinette’s amusement. Walt must have visited this Hameau before building Disneyland

Paris Alternative Things To Do - walking along the left bank of the Siene

Walking along the left bank of the Siene, browse the street vendors selling old books and postcards.

Okay, A Touristy Spot
You’ll find a lot of tourists in Montmarte, but it’s worth braving the crowds to visit ground zero of the Impressionist movement and the Belle Epoque, when Paris was the center of the art and theatre world in the late 19th century. Sipping a Café Crème, looking at Sacre Coeur is a must-do, even for the alternative tourist.

Top Tips
Our hotel had extra room in the mini bar, so we stocked it with a baguette, a jar of Gran Maman Strawberry jam, and a selection of cheeses which help us save money on breakfasts and quick lunches. We kept a bottle of $3 bottle of Cote de Rhone in the room, and it was fabulous. When you run out of supplies, there are wine stores and fresh fruit stands everywhere. That said, when in Paris, one must have at least one really elegant meal in Paris. France is one of the best places in the world to have fine cuisine and service, so indulge.

Paris Alternative Things To Do. Winter view of an arbor at Marie Antoinette’s peasant village, Hameau

Winter at Marie Antoinette’s peasant village, Hameau.

Local Customs
When you enter an establishment, the purveyor will greet you with a “Bon Jour”. Responding to this greeting with a “Bon Jour” is expected, and delivering that will let them know that you respect their traditions. When you need something, precede your request with an excuse me, or excuse-moi. It’s good manners, and, again, shows respect for the local culture. Thirdly, go with the flow. A subtle version of the old joke about the ignorant American calling the waiter “garcon” often plays out in cafés and brasseries, even today. Service in Paris can be much faster than in the U.S., but in a different order. Also, you can’t get your coffee to go, but you won’t want to, so go with the flow and you’ll have a great time.

Intercity Travel
The Metro system is incredibly useful. Nothing beats arriving at Gare du Nord train station after a trip from London on the Eurostar. It was much easier to get to your hotel by Metro than to spend an hour in the taxi line.

For tourists, the Paris Visite travel card is a convenient and money-saving way to use all the public transport in Paris and the surrounding area. It comes in 1, 2, 3 or 5 consecutive day versions, starting from the first day of use. It also gives you a discount on many of the top attractions. You can purchase the pass at the station, or buy in advance online at www.coniergerie.com.

Taxi meters in Paris start when you call them from the hotel lobby or your cell phone. Using the taxi stands can save the extra fare that it takes for the taxi to get to you by catching one at a taxi stand.

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